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Silence Before Speaking
Silence before speaking is a discipline in Masonic teaching: a member listens and weighs words before he answers, so that his speech serves the lodge.
In Masonic teaching, silence before speaking is a discipline. A member listens and weighs his words before answering, so that what he says serves the lodge rather than his own impatience.
Silence is not withdrawal. The brother who keeps silent is still attending to the matter, and his silence is a form of attention. The discipline asks him to speak when he has something useful to add, and to ask a question when he does not yet understand.
Example: during a debate about a lodge budget, a brother feels a sharp reply forming. He waits until the speaker finishes, restates the point in his own words to check it, and then asks a precise question. The discussion moves forward, and his contribution carries weight because it was considered.